Re: I'm Ok, You're Ok

Gord Hawkes (logcabinorchard@cyberus.ca)
Mon, 23 Aug 1999 19:10:22 -0400

Wow! I think I'm ok, definitely think Bargyla's ok, sure that Anita is ok,
same with Kate, Gwyneth and Beth, Misha she's ok too, there are a couple
Aussie's I'm not too sure about (just kidding). Hey folks we're all ok!
Let's not take ourselves too seriously - bravo for those who have sound
fundamental beliefs be it religious or otherwise. It's what makes this
group interesting - we're sorta like one big happy sometimes disfunctional
family, but that's what makes the world go round - that is if one
subscribes to the belief that the world goes round - not meaning to offend
any of you flat earth society members.

Bargyla has shown great restraint and poise in her apologies - I tip my hat
to you for being mature and definitely courteous. So let us discuss the
issues of sustainable agriculture and let us mix those discussions with our
own personal twists and idiosyncrasies, cuz after all we're "just" human
with many foibles - 'specially those Aussies!

Gord Hawkes
Log Cabin Orchard
Osgoode, Ontario
Canada (no comments please)
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> From: Anita Graf (Staff) <agraf@agecon.uga.edu>
> To: sanet-mg@ces.ncsu.edu
> Subject: I'm Ok, You're Ok
> Date: Monday, August 23, 1999 10:07 AM
>
>
> > list? Do we really need to observe the "I'm OK, You're OK" attitude
> > about truth? Do we really need to assert religious falsehoods to
> > make our points?
>
> This is somewhat off-topic, but I just had to comment. I see the
> book title _I'm Ok, You're Ok_ misused all the time to mean "fluffy, K
> saccherine, nonesense," and I just want to inform you all that this
> book, written in 1967 as the public introduction to Transactional
> Analysis, is anything BUT that. It is one of the best books I have
> ever read regarding human interaction, and one of the best tools I
> know of to help people to communicate in mature and thoughtful ways
> and to understand why this doesn't always occur. I wish more people
> would read this book and not just continue to misunderstand its
> title. I'm sure that if the author had any idea how his terminology
> would be misunderstood, he would have named the book differently, and
> maybe used different terminology all together to express his concept.
> Again, I highly recommend this book to anyone who seeks to have
> better communication and better relationships. There are few books
> in the New Age genre of self-help that can even come close to
> touching this book. If you were to understand the real meaning
> behind "I'm ok, you're ok," you would not denegrate it as fluff. In
> fact you ought to celebrate it as something very profound.
>
> Anita
>
>
> Anita Graf
> 313-F Conner Hall
> Dept. of Agricultural and Applied Economics
> University of Georgia
> Athens, GA 30602-7509
> (706) 542-1915 phone
> (706) 542-0739 fax
> agraf@agecon.uga.edu
>
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